Are you fascinated by crystals and the so-called ‘mystical arts’? Have you ever wondered how to use a pendulum to give you some clarity in life? Then read on for this beginner’s guide on unlocking your inner potential using a pendulum.
What is a pendulum, and why use one?
A pendulum is a simple object, often a weighted crystal, metal, or even a favourite ring on a string, that swings back and forth with surprising sensitivity. For centuries, people have used pendulums for spiritual insight, divination, and connection to a deeper sense of knowing. When I use a pendulum, I use it for clarity as a bridge between my conscious mind and my intuition, or what I call my Higher Self or spiritual wisdom.
Many traditions, from early European folk practices to Eastern spiritual teachings, have used pendulum dowsing to ask questions and receive yes or no answers when guidance feels unclear. What’s great about using a pendulum is how easy and accessible this tool can be. It asks for no special skill or expensive equipment, just openness and a willingness to listen and have a go.
Learning to use a pendulum for yes/no clarity can help you connect more deeply to your own intuition, support your spiritual growth, and invite a sense of calm when faced with everyday decisions. It can be a way into listening to your inner self. For those on a spiritual path, it can become a trusted companion on the adventure to greater awareness and self-truth.
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Why use a pendulum for Yes/No questions?
Using a pendulum is not about divining, predicting the future or handing your power over to an outside force. But it can help you tune in to subtle thoughts, feelings, and spiritual nudges that a busy mind sometimes overlooks. The simple yes/no method can bring a sense of peace when you’re feeling uncertain, or help you to check in with your own inner guidance before making decisions, from choosing a book to read to exploring big spiritual questions.
Some of the ways a pendulum can support you include:
- Bringing your attention to your inner intuition, instead of just logic or outside influence
- Helping you slow down and ground yourself before making important choices
- Deepening your connection to your own spiritual guidance, whether you see that as a higher power, angels, guides, or your own soul
- Getting gentle input if you feel stuck or emotionally charged about an answer
As with all spiritual tools, the meaning you take from a pendulum comes from inside you. The more you practise, the clearer and more reassuring the answers will tend to feel.
Step-by-step guide: How to use a pendulum for Yes/No Clarity
The following steps are a routine I recommend when starting to use a pendulum, especially if you want answers that feel thoughtful and in tune with your spiritual self. In my experience, going through these helps me personally stay focused and avoid mixed signals.
1. Set up a calm and focused space
Start by finding a quiet spot where you won’t be interrupted. Many people like to create a calm atmosphere with a candle, incense, or favourite crystals, but even just a tidy, peaceful area works well too. Sit comfortably, holding the pendulum chain or cord between your thumb and forefinger, letting it hang over your palm or the centre of the table. This is the signal that you are ready to listen.
- Remove distractions such as phones or loud music
- Take a few deep breaths to relax your mind and body
- Set an intention for clear and honest answers.
“The mind is like water. When it’s calm, the answer becomes clear.”

2. Establish your Yes and No responses
This is a really important part that shouldn’t be rushed. When you start, you need to ask the pendulum to show you a “yes” by saying either out loud or mentally, “Show me a yes.” Watch as it swings in a certain direction or pattern; it might go side to side, front to back, or in a circle.
Try not to move it consciously. Allow the pendulum to show you the answer.
Then ask, “Show me a no,” and watch for a different movement. Sometimes it takes a few seconds for the response to feel definite. Everyone’s pendulum is different, so this is a personal process. If you are unsure, say, “Make it clearer,” and you should see the movement become bigger.
- Repeat the process two or three times to confirm the responses are consistent
- If the pendulum gives mixed or unclear movement, I pause and reset myself before trying again
- I make a note of what each direction means for me so I don’t second-guess during a session
This is a very intriguing and affirming process because for me, the answers to these questions are consistently the same. For me, yes goes clockwise, no goes anticlockwise, and if the pendulum swings rather than moving in a circle, I know that means “unsure or not clear”.
For you, you may have completely different responses, which is why you need to calibrate the pendulum for yourself and each time.

3. Be clear with your question
For yes/no clarity, it’s helpful to ask simple, specific questions. Avoid complex phrasing or questions that contain more than one idea. The more focused your question is, the clearer the answer tends to be. Questions like “Is this action for my highest good?” or “Should I pursue this opportunity right now?” work better than open-ended or vague questions.
- Phrase every query so it can be answered with yes or no
- If you’re not sure how to word your question, take a moment to write it down before asking, so you can avoid confusion in your mind
- If emotions feel high, pause and ground yourself with a few slow breaths
4. Interpret the answer calmly
After asking your question, wait for the pendulum to respond. Sometimes it’s instant, other times it takes a few seconds. Remind yourself to stay open and not try to influence the answer. If the swing is weak or unclear, ask it to “Make it clearer”. Check in with yourself too. Are you nervous, doubtful, or hoping for a particular answer? If so, take a break and return later.
- A clear, strong swing is easier to trust; a weak or wobbly swing may mean you need to rephrase or wait
- Record the questions and answers in a spiritual journal to spot patterns over time
- If you get an answer that surprises you, sit quietly and reflect before taking action
Remember, the pendulum is not a tool for divination here, so don’t ask questions about what someone else will do. You are tuning in to YOUR Higher Self, not anyone else’s, so respect that.
5. End with gratitude and grounding
We know that gratitude is a powerful emotion. I always thank my Higher Self, spiritual guides, or the energy that supports me, even if the answer isn’t what I wanted. This helps close the session positively. I recommend that you also ground yourself by drinking some water, touching the earth, or just stretching, so the insight feels fully integrated.

Supporting your pendulum practice: tips for greater clarity
- Choose the right pendulum: I’ve found that choosing a pendulum is a bit like choosing a crystal; I go with one that feels comfortable and right in my hand. Materials like amethyst, rose quartz, and brass are common, but you can use anything really. I always clear it before use
- Work with intention: Before starting, state your intention for the session quietly to yourself. This could be a desire for clarity, alignment with my highest good, or connection to loving guidance
- Be patient with yourself; it’s normal for early sessions to feel uncertain. Have fun with the process – you’ll find the connection gets stronger with practice
- I recommend you store your pendulum in a sacred or safe place, showing respect for the practice by wrapping it in a natural cloth and keeping it in a decorated box – I made my own so it feels personal
- Cleanse the pendulum regularly; just as with crystals, placing the pendulum in sunlight, moonlight, or a bowl of salt can help clear old energy
- Stay neutral about the answer; the less attached you are to the outcome, the more honest and accurate the swing usually is
- Trust the process slowly; Keep notes and review patterns. This will build your confidence in your own spiritual voice
- Respect when the answer is “not now” or unclear; sometimes a weak or unclear movement can mean that the timing is off, or more inner work is needed first. Respect this
If you find yourself doubting the process, remind yourself that pendulum work is a partnership between your intuition and your present self. Taking extra time to ground and reset can help step up your results. Sometimes, journalling about feelings and outcomes can help you build trust, especially in the early stages of your practice.

Books and resources for pendulum dowsing
Here are a few resources that have helped me on my adventure with pendulum dowsing and spiritual growth:
- “Pendulum Power” by Greg Nielsen and Joseph Polansky; a beginner-friendly introduction with exercises and examples
- “Pendulum: The Ultimate Guide to the Magic of Pendulums and How to Use Them for Divination, Dowsing, Tarot Reading, Healing, and Balancing Chakras” by Mari Silva (Psychic Abilities): a clear and practical introduction to using pendulums for spiritual practices, explaining both the history and hands-on techniques.
- “How to Use a Pendulum for Dowsing and Divination” by Richard Webster; clear, accessible, and thorough
- Online spiritual forums and YouTube channels
Local metaphysical shops, library search tools, or even social media groups are other great ways to stumble upon advice and guidance as you get started. Sharing your results with others, when you feel ready, can sometimes spark new questions and connections that breathe new life into your spiritual routine.
A personal reflection on pendulum practice
Using a pendulum for yes/no clarity has felt like inviting a quiet, trusted friend into my spiritual adventure. I don’t see it as fortune telling or something to lean on for every little decision, and it’s not something I would use for those big decisions either, without checking in with myself with other methods. Instead, it’s one of many tools that help me pause, listen, and reconnect with a deeper awareness. With kindness, patience, and practice, I’ve found that answers often become less about whether something is “right and wrong”, and more about enhancing my own understanding of my perception and personal awareness day by day.
Over time, the practice encourages noticing subtle shifts in feelings and thoughts, turning pendulum sessions into gentle opportunities for self-discovery rather than rigid sources of external authority. Wrapping up, a pendulum can be a fun way to support mindful choices and keep you gently aligned with your inner voice as you walk your spiritual path.
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I really enjoyed reading this! I’ve always been curious about using a pendulum but felt a bit unsure where to start — this guide made it feel approachable and respectful at the same time. I love how it’s not about fortune-telling but about tuning into your own intuition. The part about “yes goes clockwise, no goes anticlockwise” really resonated with me . I’ve experienced similar patterns and it’s honestly fascinating how consistent it can be once you’re calm and grounded. Thanks for sharing such a thoughtful, step-by-step breakdown. I’ll definitely be trying this with more intention now!
Hi Kavitha. Thanks for your kind comments and I’m so pleased that you’re interested in trying out the pendulum. It is great fun and I highly recommend it. What kind of pendulum is your favourite? Gail
Gail, this article truly touched me. Reading your words felt like being gently guided by a trusted friend who deeply understands the spiritual path. Your approach to pendulum work—grounded, respectful, and heart-centered—resonated with me in such a sincere way. I especially appreciated your reminder that this isn’t about fortune-telling, but about deepening connection with our own intuition and Higher Self. That shift in perspective alone feels so empowering and validating.
The practical steps you shared are incredibly clear and inviting, but what really stands out is the warmth and intention behind every part of the process—from creating a sacred space to ending with gratitude. Your personal reflections brought tears to my eyes because they echo something I’ve longed for: a deeper, gentler relationship with my inner knowing.
Thank you for holding space for those of us seeking clarity in an often noisy world. This post is more than a guide—it’s a spiritual offering. I’m feeling inspired to reconnect with my own inner wisdom, this time with more patience, reverence, and love.
With deep gratitude,
Andrejs
Hi Andre. Thank you so much for your kind words about the article and I’m so pleased that you liked the personal touch. I try to do that with all my posts and I invite you to read more on the website to help you connect back to your spirituality. There are so many ways, not just pendulums or crystals, but really through just breathing and going within – that’s the magic step really – quieten your mind and listen to what’s really there. Happy to help you on your journey, Andre. Let me know how it goes. Gail