Do you have personal wellness plans? If not, why not? I’m not talking about a gym membership or a personal trainer. I mean something that you can turn to on days when you feel down or you feel like you need something to pick you up – an antidote to the negativity on the news and gossip that often surrounds us.
We all carry invisible burdens. Sometimes it’s the pressure of daily responsibilities, other times it’s the quiet ache of uncertainty or overwhelm. A personal wellness plan is like giving yourself a compass – small practices and reminders that bring you back to balance when life feels scattered. And who doesn’t feel scattered at times?
One of the most beautiful ways to begin is by creating what I like to call a Happiness Tin – a simple yet powerful tool for your wellness toolbox.
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The Happiness Tin – Your Little Pocket of Sunshine
A Happiness Tin is more than just a container of trinkets. You should see it as your very own box of sunshine – a collection of tangible reminders that joy is never too far away. In fact, it can be the cornerstone of a personal wellness toolkit that you return to whenever life feels heavy. Even thinking about it can put a smile on your face.
Here’s what to do:
Begin by gathering things that speak directly to your heart. For example:
- A photograph that always makes you smile – maybe that holiday snap by the sea or a picture of friends laughing together
- A few favourite quotes – handwritten in your own script, or found online and tucked into the tin like quotes, poems or words of encouragement
- Tiny treasures – a shell from your favourite beach, a pressed flower, or a ticket stub from a concert that made your soul sing
- A piece of paper with the name of your favourite song, or an old CD of it
- Something treasured from a friend
- A silly joke that always makes you laugh
You might also want to add:
- A small crystal or stone that feels grounding or uplifting – see our article on crystals for more ideas
- A sachet of herbal tea or a little vial of essential oil that brings comfort through scent
- A list of your favourite songs – or even a QR code linking to a personal playlist
- A letter to your future self, written on a day when you felt strong and hopeful
- A doodle, painting, or scrap of fabric in colours that lift your spirit
There are literally no rules here. This is a personal box and you don’t have to explain anything to anyone about what you put in it.
The only proviso is that the items make you feel happy and ground you in the present moment in a happy mood. You may be thinking back to a different time, but the emotion you want to feel is joy.
🌿 Your personal wellness plan doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s. It’s yours to shape. Whether it’s a Happiness Tin, a mindful ritual, or a practice that costs nothing at all, each choice is an act of love towards yourself. And that love – steady, intentional, and creative – is what keeps your spirit shining.
Making Your Own Container
The magic of the Happiness Tin is how personal you make it. As part of your wellness plan, you could:
- Make a box using recycled components
- Decorate the outside with paint, stickers, or washi tape so it feels instantly yours
- Line the inside with tissue paper or fabric scraps in your favourite colour
- Use little envelopes to separate items – one envelope for “memories,” one for “inspiration,” and one for “comfort”
- Add a handwritten label on the container with a phrase like “Open when you need a smile” or “My sunshine in a box,” or whatever takes your fancy!
Some ideas for the container could be:
- Old cereal boxes
- Wooden crafting boxes
- Biscuit tins – you can get some very colourful ones in lots of shapes and sizes
- A jewellery box
- A small crafting container or toolbox
- Chocolate boxes
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about making the container itself part of the joy, as a reflection of your personality and heart.
I have an old tin which is coloured like a cat, which I love. It’s about ten inches tall and can hold lots of things that I love to look at and give me an instant boost.
A Happiness Tin As A Gift
These tins also make beautiful, thoughtful gifts. Imagine giving one to:
- A friend who’s going through a difficult time – filled with encouraging notes, a comforting tea bag, and a shared photo that reminds them they’re not alone
- A teenager about to head off to university – with little reminders of home and affirmations to boost their confidence
- A partner or child – a collection of reasons you love them, small tokens of shared memories, and a few inside jokes tucked inside
It’s a gift that says, “I see you, I care for you, and I want you to have a pocket of happiness when you need it most.”
🌸 The Happiness Tin is small enough to sit on a shelf or be tucked away in a drawer, but powerful enough to become a lifeline of light on darker days. Each time you add to it, you’re choosing to honour joy – and each time you open it, you’re reminding yourself that joy is always within reach.
Rituals That Bring You Home To Yourself
Your personal wellness plan shouldn’t only focus on objects, but also on the little rituals that hold you steady in times of need. We all have times like that, and if we can hold on to ourselves, when the world seems against us, we will have conquered a little of our own fear and realised a little of our own power.
This could be as simple as:
- A weekly bath that becomes more than just washing away the day – it’s a pause, a soaking of the body and spirit in warmth. Light a candle, add a drop of essential oil, and breathe deeply
- A short meditation – five minutes of focused breathing or a gentle guided audio – can shift your inner world in ways that surprise you
- A daily walk, journalling, or a creative hobby done with presence can all become sacred
The thread that ties these rituals together is your intention. Cooking a favourite meal, listening to music, even just watering your plants – all of these can become part of your wellness toolkit when done with awareness and care. There will always be something you can do to help redirect your thoughts and lift your mood. The trick is to have them easily to hand when you need them. A little self-love goes a long, long way!
Wellness Doesn’t Need To Cost The Earth
Spiritual and emotional wellness doesn’t have to be expensive, either in terms of money or the environment. In fact, the simplest practices are often the most profound and the most sustainable for any personal wellness plan.
In addition to journalling and connecting to nature, which are usually free for everyone, think about:
- Free meditation resources – countless videos, podcasts, and apps can guide you, helping you find peace without any cost
- Community connection – local events, library groups, or online communities can give you belonging and inspiration without a price tag
- Volunteering – being of service to others or your community can give you a boost and it also helps someone else too. There are lots of organisations that need volunteers from charity shops to local animal shelters. There should be something that interests you if you look around your local area
- Exercise – this is known to improve mental health and physical fitness. You don’t have to slog it out at the gym if that’s not your ‘thing’ – find something that you love such as dancing, gardening or bowls
A Mindset of Continuous Growth
A healthy wellness toolbox isn’t just about soothing your mood – it’s also about stretching yourself gently into new growth. Learning a new skill or doing something new will activate your brain and keep it active which is better for your overall long-term health and wellbeing.
Read a book, learn a new language or listen to a podcast that challenges your perspective. Keep company with people who lift and inspire you. Stay curious and open to learning in every form – whether through a workshop, a conversation, or your own reflections.
Set small goals that lead to gentle progress and celebrate each step. Remember that your journey of growth is not about rushing, but about unfolding into the person you truly choose to become.
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